It’s been 5 years now sense I have been divorced. My life was turned upside down but for the best. I have to get my life organized or I will always be looking for things. Important papers are in Profiles one for each of us and each section has a label.
Binders are a great help keeping things at the reach of a hand for organization.
Getting out of my x’s debit has been kinda hard. When someone tells you they are going to take care of something make sure they do. MY x’s said that and he didn’t now we both have a rental house bill in collections because he didn’t take care of it. He also said while we where married that he was taking care of all the bills and they ended up in collections; so my first tax return of my own ended up paying all those bills off but the rental.
We also had an agreement that I could have the van and he pay for it till I got back on my feet. Meaning have my own place. Guess what not yet have my own place so a year after the divorce I told the loan people to take the van back if he was going to stop on paying the van. I have got my own car now and hopefully next year get my own place.
I have gone back into the workforce and like it but do miss being a stay home mom but now that my kids are all teenagers it seems great.